Friday, January 30, 2009

The Only Way to Be Happy is to Live the Gospel

I am still reading that book by Shari Dew God Wants a Powerful People. I have another quote to share from the book:
"In contrast to sin, which is ugly and costly, obedience is brilliant and its fruits are endless. One of those fruits is happiness. The only way to be happy is to live the gospel.
It is not possible to sin enough to be happy. It isn't possible to buy enough to be happy, or to entertain or indulge or pamper ourselves enough to be happy. It is not possible to hide enough or run far enough away from trials and troubles to be happy. Happiness and joy come only when we are living up to who we are. King Benjamin understood this and taught it clearly when he admonished us to 'consider on the blessed and happy state of those that keep the commandments of God. For ... they are blessed in all things, ... and if they hold out faithful to the end ... they may dwell with God in a state of never ending happiness' (Mosiah 2:41).
Satan likely bristles at this principle, for happiness is something that the ultimate narcissist will never experience. I have never met anyone who was happier because he was immoral, or because he was addicted to something, or because he was dishonest and compromised his integrity. The Lord has blessed us with covenants that keep us on the straight and narrow path because this 'road less traveled' is actually the easier road. It is so much easier to be righteous than to sin, so much easier to deal with a clear conscience than one ravaged by guilt, so much easier to feel peace of mind and heart when we are living up to who we are rather than coping with the emotional and spiritual ravages of regret, knowing we have lived beneath our divine nature."

I am just really enjoying this book. When I feel uplifted I just can't help but share it. All the time that I was growing up and learning the gospel I felt like there were all these things that I couldn't do. Now that I understand the gospel all of those things that I can't do don't matter and through the course of my life I have learned that great sorrow and pain come from those things anyway. Since I have been trying to live the gospel and be true to who I am, I have felt peace and happiness.

Thursday, January 29, 2009

A Note on Faith

Hebrews 11:11 "Through faith also Sara herself received strength to conceive seed, and was delivered of a child when she was past age, because she judged him faithful who had promised."

From Shari Dew's book God Wants a Powerful People:
"Challenges that tax our faith are usually opportunities to stretch and strengthen our faith by finding out if we really believe the Lord will help us.
If your faith is wobbly, if you're not sure the Lord will come to your aid, experiment. Put Him to the test. A great place to start is in the scriptures, for as Jacob wrote: 'We search the prophets, and we have many revelations... and having all these witnesses we obtain a hope, and our faith becometh unshaken' (Jacob 4:6).
Unshaken faith activiates the power of God in our lives, 'for he worketh by power, acording to the faith of the children of men' (Moroni 10:7)."

I like it in the scriptures when faith is compared to a mustard seed which is tiny but grows into a very large tree. My faith may be small but I know that it can become a sheltering tree.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

New Beginnings 2009

I went with Heather to New Beginnings last night where I had the opportunity to introduce her. I brought her marshmallow shooter and warned the Bishop that you have to really watch the quiet ones.

One of the young women talked about the values, this year they are adding the value of virtue to the other seven values (faith, divine nature, individual worth, knowledge, choice and accountability, good works and integrity). Something that she said really stuck out in my mind, it was a comment about individual worth, the Lord wants me to be a strong and confident woman. That way He can use me as an instrument for good in building up His kingdom. If I am always down on myself and beset with insecurities how can He use me? I know that I am a daughter of God, I want to be useful, I need His help to overcome myself and be what He wants me to be.

The bishop used an analogy in his talk. He likened steps in our progress to a bouquet of flowers. Beginning with our blessing as infants, learning to pray and love God, getting baptized, completing the young women personal progress program, getting our patriarchal blessing, attending seminary, these are all flowers or elements of the bouquet that is our life. All of these elements support the crowning bloom, temple covenants, all of these steps prepare us to enter the temple. Then he talked about the vase which is the vase of virtue. With out the vase the bouquet falls apart. Virtue is needed to hold everything together. I really liked the visual that this created in my mind and in that moment I realized that I need to make sure that Heather is prepared. I know where the focus of our family home evening lessons need to be, in that moment I knew that that is what Heavenly Father wants me to do. I know that He will help me to know what I need to do to prepare Heather.

The mutual theme this year is 1 Timothy 4:12 "Be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity"

President Spencer W. Kimball testified that "good women of the world...will be drawn to the church in large numbers" in the last days. "This will happen to the degree that the women of the church reflect righteousness...in their lives and ...are seen as distinct and different...in happy ways...from the women of the world"

We reflect on the story of Queen Esther, who saved her people through her faithfulness. President Lorenzo Snow once suggested that the day might come when Latter Day Saint sisters would act the part of Esther. This is a sobering thought, how can we act the part of Esther and save our people if we know nothing of faith, virtue and purity. Needless to say I was very glad that I went and supported Heather. I feel like I have been reminded of my great responsibility and I love Heather so much I am determined not to let her down or my Heavenly Father.

The bishop also challenged us to read D&C 109, it's the dedicatory prayer for the Kirtland temple. I read it this morning and I feel invigorated and encouraged. I want to share just a small part of what I read today:

verse 13 "And that all people who shall enter upon the threshold of the Lord’s house may feel thy power, and feel constrained to acknowledge that thou hast sanctified it, and that it is thy house, a place of thy holiness."

I am hoping that this may be true of a temple just prior to its dedication too. The Draper temple is completed and we are planning to go to the open house and our son Brian and his fiance Heather want to go and see the temple. I really believe in this promise, I pray that hearts may be softened so that they can feel that it is the house of the Lord.

verse 24-26 "We ask thee, Holy Father, to establish the people that shall worship, and honorably hold a name and standing in this thy house, to all generations and for eternity;

That no weapon formed against them shall prosper; that he who diggeth a pit for them shall fall into the same himself;

That no combination of wickedness shall have power to rise up and prevail over thy people upon whom thy name shall be put in this house;"

I feel the strength in these promises, they apply to us.

verse 37-38 "And let thy house be filled, as with a rushing mighty wind, with thy glory.

Put upon thy servants the testimony of the covenant, that when they go out and proclaim thy word they may seal up the law, and prepare the hearts of thy saints for all those judgments thou art about to send, in thy wrath, upon the inhabitants of the earth, because of their transgressions, that thy people may not faint in the day of trouble."

As we faithfully attend the temple we will be prepared to proclaim the gospel and be prepared for the day of trouble. Wow!

verse 54 "Have mercy, O Lord, upon all the nations of the earth; have mercy upon the rulers of our land; may those principles, which were so honorably and nobly defended, namely, the Constitution of our land, by our fathers, be established forever."

Some times I think that things look rather bleak for our country, I read this and I feel hopeful. I know that I am on the winning side, as long as I am true to my covenants. The Lords work will not fail, His promises will all be fulfilled. I am so glad that I can read things, that maybe I have read before, and take them more fully into my heart and make a New Beginning. Ah the gospel, it really is the good news!

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Pray Always

Here are a couple of scriptures that I read this morning.

1 Nephi 18:3
And I, Nephi, did go into the mount oft, and I did pray oft unto the Lord; wherefore the Lord showed unto me great things.


D&C 19:38
Pray always, and I will pour out my Spirit upon you, and great shall be your blessing—yea, even more than if you should obtain treasures of earth and corruptibleness to the extent thereof.

I'm not going to add a lot to the message here, I will only reaffirm that I know this to be true. When I am faithful in praying I feel blessed.

Monday, January 26, 2009

The Power of the Holy Ghost


I am reading God Wants A Powerful People by Sheri Dew. She is one of my favorite people of all time. She has a way of saying things that seems to go straight into my heart. Anyway I wanted to share a quote from President John Taylor that I found in this book:

"You may pour wealth, honor, influence, and all the luxuries of this world into the lap of man; and, destitute of the Spirit of God, he will not be happy, for that is the only source from which true happiness and comfort can come" (The Gospel Kingdom, 341).

I have experienced this personally. Not the wealth or luxuries part, the caring more about the world and what the world thinks of me part. Since I have made a concerted effort to think more about what God wants and have tried to do that, I have felt true happiness. I feel like I now experience the true happiness and comfort even through fiery trials and challenges.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

The Beauty of Challenges

I have found recently that my challenges help me to move in the right direction. Yesterday I couldn't hear a thing out of my right ear. This has happened before and I used over the counter products to clean out my ear and things have been fine. I had never experienced the loss of hearing that I did yesterday, it kinda scared me. I was forced to find out how to use our new insurance and find a doctor for our family. There are other reasons why I needed to do this but they seemed easy to put off, I am so grateful to have challenges that force me to move forward. It's nice when you can see the beauty in our challenges, like the a sunrise at the top of a mountain after a long climb.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

I Finished!

This morning I finished reading the Book of Mormon. I think that this is my second time through it since I returned to the church from inactivity. I love the scriptures and I feel closer to Heavenly Father when I read them. It seems that there is always some new message there, or my understanding gets expanded every time I take the time to study and listen.

Moroni 10:32"Yea, come unto Christ, and be perfected in him, and deny yourselves of all ungodliness; and if ye shall deny yourselves of all ungodliness, and love God with all your might, mind and strength, then is his grace sufficient for you, that by his grace ye may be perfect in Christ; and if by the grace of God ye are perfect in Christ, ye can in nowise deny the power of God."

I have felt God's love and power through the scriptures and I am learning what it means to love Him with all of my might, mind and strength. I feel so blessed, I know that I have been given so much.